Seeking Arrangement: The Definitive Guide to Sugar Daddy and Mutually Beneficial Relationships

I like this book because the owner of website gives you an idea of what sd and sb's are doing. He's a sd so he know's. This gives me good direction on how to approach the website and other places. Go Brandon Wade Seeking Arrangement was a masterpiece website.

I'm all for the Sugar Daddy lifestyle, so my negative comments are only directed at the author and his book. The book is nothing more than a shameless attempt to promote his online website. You'd have to be living in a bubble if you learned anything new after reading this book. There are countless references back to his website, all designed to encourage you join his site and pay monthly fees. He even goes so far as to say that searching for the right arrangement could take a year or more, so you need to be patient. Oh, how clever!. I suffered through each excruciating chapter hoping there would be some glimmer of insight, something that I could use to justify the money I paid for the book, but nothing came of it. Save your money, there are no secrets to success in this book.

It has some useful information, but it's SOOOOO misogynistic. I've been a sex worker for over 25 years and I know for a fact you don't have compromise your values the way this book suggests in order to find a generous man.

I saw this book featured on the 20/20 piece about SeekingArrangement with John Stossil, and I must say it both shocked and intrigued me. I thought "before I actually delve into this sugar daddy dating world, why not read the book first" - I'm a workaholic and always do my homework, especially before investing in any lifestyle change. Indeed, it's because I AM a workaholic that the mutually beneficial dating concept coined by SA intrigued me... This book is way more than just the best ever "how to guide" to sugar daddy dating, but actually gives insight into why, or why not, making mutually beneficial arrangements is right for you. This book deserves way more attention than it's getting - it is a comprehensive, genuine, all around guide and companion for anyone interested in non-traditional sugar daddy/sugar baby type relationships. I actually didn't know that I was stuck in a 'limerent' relationship for 2 years until reading the book, which, by the way, defines and classifies a variety of relationship types that many if not most of us have found ourselves in - whether we knew it or not. Thanks to reading this book, I knew exactly what to look out for, what to expect, how to negotiate an arrangement, and how to be in-tune with what a potential sugar babies needs would be as well. I found the "When the Sugar Sours" chapter especially useful for me - nothing lasts forever, and this upfront and honest approach to dating is compatible with that fact. I am glad to say that despite my initial fears, this book is not tinged with self-promotion or BS. If you're serious about becoming a 'sugar', this book is definitely worth buying, keeping, and sharing.

I was hoping this book would suggest some good approaches to writing to women on the site but it did not. All the suggested rules were just obvious things like, "Don't ask for nude pictures", "Don't be crude", et cetera. I believe it was written by someone involved with ownership of the site, so any advice would have to be "Taken with a grain of salt". I found nothing useful in this book.

As an Account Executive, I found it very difficult to date women with such a busy and tentative work schedule. That is, until a family friend introduced me to Seeking Arrangement. Honestly, I was quite skeptical at first--a lifestyle that terms gentleman as "Sugar Daddies" made me worry..but also wonder. I thought to myself, "Why not?" I really had nothing to lose. I wanted more insight into "Sugar Dating," so I purchased the book as a guide. And since then, it really has improved my love life. I am currently in a relationship (2+ years) with a beautiful and successful woman that I met on the website. She is young, vibrant, and driven. But most of all, she makes me happy. Simply put, buy the guide if you are seeking other options than traditional dating/online dating. For the price, it's a worthwhile investment for a lifetime of happiness.

Okay, so first off, the author (Brandon Wade) went to facebook and asked all his facebook friends to give him good reviews on his book- *see the site for proof--> [...] Secondly, I used to be on his dating site but I've finally realized that I'm not an object and I can't be bought OR sold. Don't support this man pimping out innocent less fortunate girls and women!

I have money, and I have always had trouble with women.. Not in bed per-say but just in general. Talking to women, how to treat them. I learned about the Sugar Daddy lifestyle after watching a nightline tv show that was on abc recently.. It really appealed to me. I found this book and read front to back, I'll admit it was a short read. But it hit a few key points about how to treat women and did a great job with examples of that. I do recommend this book to my friends.

Brilliant, well written and informative. A vision and voice for a new paradigm of relationship verses societal expected / dictated relationship.

great book

Item in very good condition, fast delivery and exactly as described, thank you very much!

Now if only we could make it mandatory reading for everyone in or thinking of entering the sugar bowl! Haha