Connect
V**I
15 percent rule rules the roost
“Connect – Building exceptional relationships with family, friends and colleagues” by David Bradford and Carole Robin is an excellent read.It opens a gateway to exploring and maintaining relationships.Few takeaways include:1. 15 per cent rule to move 15% from your comfort zone in the learning zone with another by maybe doing the following:a. Being vulnerable,b. Self-disclosure - who goes first?c. Self-realisation2. Use feedback mechanism effectively to address the behaviour dear and not the intent!3. Let the emotions flow but own it and target effective implementation bya. Getting the other person to take the feedback seriously.b. Sharing all the issuesc. Resolutiond. Repair4. Conditions, where people are more likely to change, are when their resistance to change is lesser than the product of dissatisfaction in seeing the cost of old behaviour, vision to see the benefit of new behaviour and taking the first steps.I recommend this to all who want to improve their relationships with fellow human beings.
M**N
Buy one, or seven!
I already own this book in physical and audio form but I bought this one for my mother. I got a hardback for a great price and it was beautifully brand new!
G**A
Changed my life and the way I see it
Relationships are hard, demanding and complex. That is why they are so beautiful and worth investing time on it.This book provides a complete toolkit on how to approach each different kind of relationship to achieve harmony and meaningfulness.Fortunate are those who were able to have Stanford in-person classes with these couple.
J**S
Práctico y comprensible
A través de historias los autores presentan con claridad los fundamentos y las prácticas para la construcción y mejors de relaciones significativas.
D**Y
Should be required reading for every citizen!
Connect is an operator’s manual for human social experience. Everyone can learn to be more effective, fulfilled and helpful to others through this magnificent contribution. Improvement in this domain translates into more accomplishment everywhere. This book is clear, straightforward and impactful. Thank you for bringing it from your landmark course to the benefit of everyone.
E**N
Eye opening
This book is a gem to me. I learned so much about how you can build exceptional relationships in your life. A lot of practical tips, which I will try to adopt in my personal life. I.e. giving someone the feeling to be truly understood and accepted, holding back judgment and giving advice. Being vulnerable, in touch with own emotions and taking risks in sharing something personal is key.Glad that I discovered this book!
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