How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind: Forget the Fairy Tale and Get Real

I can’t even begin to say how much I LOVE this book! This is easily one of the most ENJOYABLE self-development reads I've ever read! It is heartfelt and filled with true raw emotion! This book is an insight to today’s NEW AGE of how relationships are! Todd’s writing style is filled with wit, personal experiences, heartfelt humor, honesty, compassion, and accessible insight. I can’t recommend “How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind” enough to people! It helps with personal growth and gives insight on cultural impact and past traumas that develop your mental health! There’s a sheer joy of reading this entire book!Todd tells the true and raw emotional experiences of his own past and present and those of his clients. It is extremely impactful on so many levels. Knowing that there ARE more people out there that feel exactly how you are feeling or have felt.This book has resonated with me in so many ways, has made me feel less alone, and helps helped me see my emotions as how they are and embrace them in relationships!

No matter what stage of relationship you are in, this book is a must read. Todd has a beautiful expression and his approach is non judgmental. I think the most important part for me is that he doesn’t approach relationship advice as black and white, there is always room for the grey. Get this book. You’re going to love it.

I came to Todd's work through his Instagram where his posts offered the nuance I needed in considering my approach to relationships. Where many Instagram therapists are spouting unhelpful labels and calling people toxic avoidant narcissists left right and centre, Todd's content encouraged me to look within and without compassionately.How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind is no exception! It is vulnerable and honest and inspiring. After finishing it, I felt how the best books make you feel, much less alone, and empowered to do what is best for me in this endlessly complex dance. Highly recommend!

I already always loved his content and follow him for years. This book is a must read for everyone. In a relationship or single, it gives great insights and learnings.

Todd did not disappoint with his debut book. Much like his SM content the book was direct, straightforward, honest, vulnerable with the right amount t of humor sprinkled throughout. He encourages us, the reader, to approach ourselves and partners in the same way. I throughly enjoyed this book and will be referencing it as I continue on this journey of self discovery.